Welcome, your dating journey starts here

Hi, I’m Mary Balfour, the UK’s foremost expert on getting you to fall in love.

My mission: to help you find your soul mate – without wasting precious time. Most of what you think works well on that first date is just plain wrong! My dating advice has worked for tens of thousands of happy couples. Watch my video on the left to hear more…

I’ve spent 30 years helping busy singles find their other half through my coaching, workshops, talks, Drawing Down the Moon Matchmaking, my free dating sites LoveandFriends.com & GrownUpDating.com and of course my Smart Dating book.